What I mentioned some time ago has happened, the ghost from the past tried to sneak into my life again… I was being watched thru this social networking website but it was a silent game of ‘Please notice my presence, I’m on the friends list of our mutual friend ‘Kay’… Aren’t you as curious about me as I am about you? Perhaps we could be friends again and forget my pathetic hurtful behaviour back then?‘
Nothing happened for months and of course I couldn’t be bothered to be dragged into another one of her games; I’m not fifteen anymore. I left messages for ‘Kay’ just like I did before the ghost showed up in her friends list. To my surprise (but then again not because I was expecting it in a way) I received an email through this professionals networking website which I used for business purposes only at the time.
It was surprising in a way because it meant she must have Googled me, there is no other way to find out about this profile of mine. She’d sent me a friend request and a short line telling me that she was wondering how I’m doing. I had no internet connection at the time when she sent me the request so she had been waiting for weeks already when I found it in my inbox the moment I was online again downloading my emails.
I kept her waiting for another two more weeks before I replied to her saying: ‘I’m good, thank you for asking’ and I left it at that. Of course I didn’t add her to my friends list, what was she thinking? I’m done with this, I have been ever since I sent her that email to wish her well. If she wants to satisfy her curiosity about me or get rid of her guilt she should try an apology first that’s one way to open communication lines again.
It’s such a lame way to use a friends request to wriggle yourself through the keyhole of a door that had been shut years ago. If she’d been genuine and sincere she would’ve known how to handle this the right way and write me a proper email instead. She has my business email address, it hasn’t changed for 8 years and since she’s visited my business website she could tell… When you bargain with a fox, beware of tricks.
I agree with you that there are foxes out there full of tricks and it’s important to see through them.
I agree that if the person was genuine she would first try to apoligise. The fact that perhaps she doesn’t feel the need to do so means that all those years haven’t made her any wiser.
I don’t have time for time wasters and psychic vampires like those. I try to keep them at arms length.
Have a lovely weekend,
You’re right, I don’t think she is any wiser, she still seems to manipulate people and thinks of them as disposables; throwing them away and picking them up whenever it pleases… ‘Psychic vampires…’ I love that term
I realised Wen that the older you get the less friends you seem to have, but those that are close to you are real. I wonder if that’s because you’ve become wiser thus become more aware of the fakes or if it’s because your standards are getting higher and you don’t take the bullshit anymore?
Have a great weekend yourself!