Is the Universe trying to tell me something? Is there a message that I fail to decipher? Or is it just coincidence? I don’t believe in coincidence… but I can’t figure this one out. My previous post was about a ghost who tried to sneak back into my life. Guess what… Three days ago I noticed another one who still didn’t let go either, so it seems. I noticed he checked my new business website again for info last Thursday. Not a first but I wonder why?
I read a lot lately about emotionally unavailable men which is quite an interesting topic. I learned a thing or two about myself as well and it gave me insight and different perspectives. I remember this guy would freak out each time things were getting too intense. He’d run off and leave me in the dark for days or weeks on end until I had enough of him yo-yo-ing with me. This guy was the perfect embodiment of the emotionally unavailable man…
I have no idea what he’s looking for… I guess he still tries to satisfy his narcissistic side and it wouldn’t surprise me if I would receive an email one day. Wanna bet? In the meantime, while he’s still stuck in his ways, I’m working on improving mine, because I deserve the best. I owe that to myself…
I think that sometimes when we are working on ourselves trying to grow and we have reached a certain level of happiness, real happiness within, lots of unwanted people are ‘drawn’ to our energy trying to steal it for themselves.
I clearly noticed it because when I was living one of my happiest phases of my life I had several ‘love’ interests, that is, people who were interested in me and I wouldn’t really be interested. I wasn’t looking!
Emotionally unavailable men…that’s something really scary. It’s good to identify them…and again: Keep them at arms length
I had enough of emotionally unavailable men 
Oh yes… you are so right *of course!* I can relate to the ‘love’ interests *lol* the more I send out the signal that I’m not interested the more they seem to get interested… Twisted, isn’t it?
I had enough of emotionally unavailable men as well…
I called them Bluebeards before but I think that EUM would be a more appropriate term 