Grill Me!

Sunday I was over at ‘Petty Pieces’ by ‘Bitter Chocolate’, to read her latest post. I rarely accept ‘memes’ or ‘tags’ or anything similar but this one seems different and I actually really like it. I think because you have to come up with questions for the person who’s interested in being interviewed, so if you want to you can really grill someone *kidding*.

Bitter Chocolate has been kind to me though, you can find her questions and my answers below. Please read the rules if you would like ‘a challenge’ as well.

Rules:

1. Leave me a comment saying, “Interview me.”

2. I will respond by emailing you five questions. I get to pick the questions.

3. You will update your blog with the answers to the questions.

4. You will include this explanation and an offer to interview someone else in the same post.

5. When others comment asking to be interviewed, you will ask them five questions.

1) What was the most awkward date you’ve ever been on?

*LOL* I guess that must have been the one where I went to this famous Dutch place called ‘de Keukenhof’ with a Moroccan guy who was nine years older, I must have been seventeen. I wanted to show him Dutch culture. He wasn’t interested, I could tell by how quickly he walked through the park in search for the exit *hehe*. He couldn’t wait to get back to his car…

We sat in the car for a while talking, deciding what to do next while I, in a subtle way, tried to reject his unwelcome advances. He took me to The Hague where he owned a business that he wanted to show me but I wasn’t allowed to go in. Culture clash supreme. Obviously he’d had other plans on his mind but I wasn’t thát ignorant. Most boring and cringing date.

2) What personal accomplishment in your life are you most proud of?

Passing for my driver license exam on my first try. I’d been taking lessons on and off for a while and had to stop several times unexpectedly for different reasons: I had surgery which took six months to recover, I had a back injury etc. In the Lowlands lessons are extremely expensive and the exams seem to be the toughest ones. Less than 40% pass their exams annually and each year the tests seem to get more and more difficult.

Also, you’re not allowed to rent a car in the Lowlands in the first two years, they want you to get experience first. So two weeks after my exam, I was at Gatwick Airport and the other person had forgotten the second part of the UK driver’s license and guess what… I had to drive for an hour and half while it was pitch black, in pissing down rain, on bendy narrow country roads and on the left side of the road [who invented that?]. That was a very deep end.

3) Can music make you cry?

It most certainly can. I have a few CDs that I used to listen to when I went through some rough periods in my life and even today when I listen to them again they can evoke strong emotions.

4) Do you have a pretty handwriting?

If I try my best and don’t rush I think it is [see picture below], I have been writing in capitals ever since I can remember because my dad used to write in capitals and I thought that was pretty cool. I was once told by a graphologist that my handwriting clearly shows my creativity.

5) Do you prefer trains or buses?

That depends on the country… in London I’d prefer buses because of the obvious: most are double-deckers and you have an amazing view from the front seats on the top level! It was something I really enjoyed when I first got here and I still enjoy the view from the bus these days, it’s relaxing in a way [though not in rush hour!].

In the Lowlands I’d prefer buses outside Amsterdam, the staff of the public transport in Amsterdam are the grumpiest lot I’ve ever had to deal with. Only a few really enjoy their job but they’re rare, you can recognise them by the friendly smile on their face when you get on the bus, tram etc.

It’s readable… if I’m not in a rush ;)

6 thoughts on “Grill Me!

  1. I like your handwriting :) I bought a book some months ago about graphology but I haven’t read it yet :)

    Your date…wow…I didn’t understand the bit that you weren’t allowed in his business? I don’t understand…why weren’t you allowed in his business?

  2. Love that you attached a picture of your handrwriting, what a great idea! The driving license story reminds me of how surprised I was that I got mine the first on the first try too, my instructor kept telling me how much I suck and how I’m never ever gonna make it or adapt the mentality of a driver all throughout the driving lessons, so it really shocked that I actually got it on the first try… The downside is that he made me so self-conscious about driving that although I do have a driving license, I haven’t been driving since because I’m scared. Maybe someday the future me will overcome that.

  3. Thanks Wen :) Oh that must be a cool book, I don’t mind being your guinea pig ;)
    He was a Muslim and the place was mostly visited by men and at the time in that particular situation it was best to not interfere with his culture and his people. Not just for me for him as well… We stayed friends for some time, I also used to hang out with his younger brother who wasn’t as strict in his beliefs. And till this day I suspect he was gay [the younger brother] which is a major taboo in that community. He did all the things he basically wasn’t allowed to do according to his background/religion: a bit of a ‘rebel’.

  4. Thank you :) And thank you for the cool questions, I really enjoyed answering them. I had to dig deep with some because I couldn’t remember but that was part of the fun :)

    Oh I hear you with regard to the instructor, I had a crap one to start with who would yell at and degrade me for no reason, I guess he felt superior because he was a man… so I swapped to a female instructor and that was the best thing I did. I understand your fear all too well, I had someone in my life who wasn’t very supportive either and that left me with the same problem as yours, fortunately it’s only about parking.

    I’m absolutely sure ‘the future you’ will overcome this fear, find someone supportive, someone you can trust and ask this person to accompany you when you try again. You can do this, you just need a few successful trips to prove to yourself that you can :)

  5. I just noticed something… you and I write an awful lot alike it seems. Or maybe I’m just not seeing it clearly….

    Hiya T.! Thank you for ALL of your comments!!!

    I loved your date event and the passing your license on the first try! Great job! ;)

  6. Alike? In what way? :) I’m curious now *hehe*
    Hiya! You’re welcome :) Don’t you want to be ‘interviewed’?

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